Refs Need Love Too

Through humor, analysis and education, we are slowly changing how people view referees and officials in all sports. We care and have a love for the game as much as any player or coach. Sometimes even more.

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Refs Need Love Too Blog

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  • A Passion that Connects People Across Backgrounds and Borders

    A Passion that Connects People Across Backgroun...

    One of the best parts of being a referee? It’s undoubtedly the chance to meet people from all walks of life, nationalities, and professions. Stepping onto the pitch, I find...

    A Passion that Connects People Across Backgroun...

    One of the best parts of being a referee? It’s undoubtedly the chance to meet people from all walks of life, nationalities, and professions. Stepping onto the pitch, I find...

  • Well Timed Warnings Are A Key Match Control Tool

    Well Timed Warnings Are A Key Match Control Tool

    In some sports, warnings are built into the rules—like in soccer, where we have yellow cards as formal cautions. But not every situation calls for such formality. Sometimes, a subtle...

    Well Timed Warnings Are A Key Match Control Tool

    In some sports, warnings are built into the rules—like in soccer, where we have yellow cards as formal cautions. But not every situation calls for such formality. Sometimes, a subtle...

  • The Day I Was Shocked by a Coach

    The Day I Was Shocked by a Coach

    Refereeing is tough, and it’s not just about making the right calls—it’s about handling the emotional rollercoaster that comes with the job. Coaches, players, and fans need to focus on...

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    The Day I Was Shocked by a Coach

    Refereeing is tough, and it’s not just about making the right calls—it’s about handling the emotional rollercoaster that comes with the job. Coaches, players, and fans need to focus on...

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Check out the Merch!

Let's do it for the kids.

We need to do it for the next generation. All referees deserve respect, understanding and a safe environment to grow and learn just like the players.

I love what I do!

When I finally stop refereeing some decades from now, I hope we have helped create a more inclusive and supportive environment than the one I started my career in.

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  • Proper Kit for Refs

    We have created designs that celebrate those with the courage to pick up a whistle and those who appreciate them for it.

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  • Referees can be a force for good and positive change.

    We set the tone for the match. We are highly visible and through our communication, in both words and actions, we can contribute to a safe fun and fair environment for all participants.

  • Insights from 10 years on the pitch

    I am certainly not an expert, but I am more closely related to the 99% of grassroots refs than the professionals we see on the TV. I hope my perspectives can help you on your referee journey.

I love being a referree

Proud to be an official

We should take pride in being an official. We provide a service to our community. It is often a thankless job, but it makes a tremendous difference in the enjoyment of the games we love to play.